So, I am seeing this new guy, J (won't use his name without his permission) and so far everything is good. Its only been a couple of weeks but I really like him. In two weeks I already know where I stand with him (unlike after 2 years with D I had no clue) because he isn't afraid to say so. No, he hasn't said the L word, but he does tell me I'm cute, and beautiful. He tells me he misses me, and that I make him feel good.
I suppose I should give some vital stats about this guy. He's 32, with 2 kids (his son actually isn't his biologically but he has custody because his mom bipolar and gets unstable) his son is 11, daughter is 2 1/2 and totally adorable! He is an installer at Car Toys (think car stereos, alarms, TVs, etc), and he's a Libra like me! Our birthdays are 3 days apart.
Anyway, I really like him. I think he's one of the most handsome men I've dated for sure, so that helps! I don't mind at all that he has kids, in fact its great! Since I decided that for my health I won't be having kids I can borrow his! Oh, and he cooks! And what he cooks is not only edible its really good!!
He also took it upon himself to research CF. I think he's the first guy I've dated that has done that. So he knows how ugly this disease is and he still wants to be with me!!