He is on his way to the airport right now. His sister is in the hospital with what they believe to be a blood clot in her brain. The family needs him home to sign the DNR. They will try to go in and remove the clot, and if it is successful she will be home for Thanksgiving. If it is not successful then I don't know what will happen.
Although he hasn't specifically said so, I can tell that he is having a very hard time with this. He may be going home to say goodbye to his sister. Any prayers/good thoughts/positive vibes you can offer would be much appreciated at this time. Please also pray for the family during this difficult time.
I deeply wish that I could be with him now. I love this man and to not be able to offer any support or comfort for him is very hard for me. While I am disappointed that he will not be here for Thanksgiving (its my favorite holiday) I am much more concerned for the state of his mind and soul.